Can I kick these habits when I go home?
1. Bowing; When first I came to Korea, I would stare in amazement at all the people bowing at each other. They bowed all the time, to say hello, goodbye, sorry, the list goes on. Then I started doing it. Turns out it’s really fun. It completely takes away the language barrier, I bump into someone and I just bow. They know I’m sorry. I smile and bow, they know I’m happy to see them. I bow several times while back away towards the door, they know I’m leaving. Brilliant. Now, almost four years later, I bow all the time. I even bow to my foreign friends. Yes, it gets kind of awkward but whatever, bowing is bowing.
2. Shoes; Before I came to Korea, I saw shoes as shoes. Now, I look at shoes and buy them according to how fast I can get them on and off. Since we take our shoes off when we go into a lot of places, this is essential. You do not want to be slow as a wet week getting your shoes on after you’ve all eaten. Chances are your party will already be sitting down for beer by the time you get your ridiculously complicated shoes on. Or worse is at the airport. Sometimes they make you take your shoes off at the security clearance. The last thing you need is to be holding up the whole line because you can’t get your shoes off. Fact.
3. Replacing my ‘v’s with ‘b’s; Possibly my worst habit. I can’t help myself. Four years of hearing it day in day out will do this to you. Koreans have difficulty saying the ‘v’ sound so it usually comes out like a ‘b’. Now, I’ve started to it as well. It’s a bery bery cold day today. Mostly on the word ‘very’. I’m bery happy!
4. Saying things twice; I have no idea where this one came from, but I say things twice. For example in a normal school day, I might say, “clean up clean up, hello hello, goodbye goodbye, hey hey, why why thank you thank you”
5. Speaking louder when people don’t understand what I’m saying; When I speak in Konglish and someone doesn’t understand what I’m trying to say, I repeat the sentence a tone louder. I can’t help myself. It’s possibly to do with the fact that my Korean skills suck or that my English has gone down hill (refer to points 3 & 4). I must remember that if a person does not understand me, it’s not because they’re deaf , it’s because the sentence itself didn’t make sense.
6. Making a V when taking a picture; For this one, I think I’m going to need years of therapy to help me stop. When someone takes a picture, or there’s a camera is the vicinity, my fingers automatically make a “v” beside my face. Every time. It gets pretty awkward when I’m at an event where doing the V is really not appropriate, in which case, I spend the entire night telling myself not to do it .
7. Looking at myself in every reflective surface; Korea is the land of mirrors. There are mirrors EVERYWHERE, elevators, bathrooms, toilet cubicles, handbags. The list goes on. People in Korea are always looking at themselves in reflective surfaces and now I’ve joined them. I’ve got a pretty mild case and I’m not one of those girls who takes 5 million pictures of herself on the subway (that’s random as hell) but I do use the elevator mirrors and other convenient reflective surfaces to make sure I’m still foreign.
8. Brushing my teeth after lunch: I never did this in Ireland. Now, it’s a habit and if I don’t do it, I can feel the guilt gnawing away at me. Must….brush…..teeth…….
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